It is a hundred percent better to have nobody than to have somebody who doesn't have want to be there

No word of a lie has been told here ! Loud it for the people in the back please ! I know that there are a lot of people out here settli...

Friday, September 20, 2019

It is a hundred percent better to have nobody than to have somebody who doesn't have want to be there


No word of a lie has been told here ! Loud it for the people in the back please ! I know that there are a lot of people out here settling with people who do not actually want to be in the relationship. The signs are there, their other half is showing that they would rather be somewhere else but they keep on forcing the situation because they just cannot let go. 

I'm here to tell you to LET GO ! If you can see that your partner is not really putting in the work to be in the relationship, Let them go !  It is not by force, Do not force it ! 

There are soo many signs and we need to stop ignoring them. If your other half is not putting in the effort to see you or at last talk to you, then they do not want to be there ! If your other half is spending more time with other people than with you, they do not want to be there ! If you are  questioning whether they want to be there, they do not want to be there !  If you are a side chick and your other half doesn't want to leave his wife, He does not want to be there ! It's just that simple !

Us humans love to complicate things when it's just soo simple. What is meant for you will be for you ! Trust me, you do not need to force things with anybody. If you are forcing it, then it is not for you !! 





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Tuesday, September 17, 2019

Don't Ever Underestimate A Mans Ability To Make You Feel Guilty For His Mistakes


Ladies, take note ! Don't ever, I mean ever underestimate a mans ability to make you feel guilty for his mistakes ! I swear I have seen situations where a man has been caught cheating and the first thing they did was blame their woman. lol. It's comical but its real !

 I can't even lie, i have definitely been in that situation and I was dumb enough to believe that it actually was my fault. So I started to look for faults in myself to actually make myself believe that the reason he was cheating was because of me. I know i am not the only female who has been in this situation, in fact i know plenty of females who have been here. 

Now I am not saying that all females are completely blameless, what I am saying is that if a man cheats on you after you've given him your all, that's on HIM and not you !

It seems like some guys have this kind of power to make a girl feel like she is the reason for all the wrongs he is doing. I'm telling you now, it's just psychology and it's just an easier way for him not to feel as guilty as he should be feeling.

Ladies, if he messes up, hold him accountable and make sure you do not blame yourself for his mistakes,unless you actually are to blame, which I highly doubt !



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Tuesday, September 10, 2019

The hottest love has the coldest end


This is so sad but so true ! This basically means that the most passionate and most heated relationships usually end in the worst ways. It's like going from 100 all the way down to 0. It's soo strange how couples who loved each other soo much end up hating each others existence.  But I get it, because i understand that once you're deeply in love it hurts more when your partner betrays you and it brews up way more anger than when somebody you hardly care about does it.

I can honestly say that my first relationship definitely started as a hot love. You know when you're soo in love that you can't see yourself with anybody else but that person, yup that was me. Me and the person I was with at the time was always together and if we weren't together we were always communicating. Even though the love at the time was soo hot, the ending was truly a cold one to a point where I would have almost caught a case if I didn't have common sense.

I know of soo many relationships out there that started out soo well and ended up soo badly, so I agree in most cases that The hottest love does have the coldest end.


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Thursday, August 22, 2019

It takes a real man to realize one woman is enough

Scream it louder for the people in the back ! It's important to know and understand what a real man is. It seems like within our society a man cheating is the norm and it's almost impossible to find a man that does not cheat. I'm here to tell you that a real man understands that one woman is enough for him.

Ladies, understand this, men who run after different girls are not REAL men ! A real man is grown and understands relationships requires work and effort. A REAL man is content and would rather work on fixing his relationship that looking for an easy way out. 

Men that cheat usually cheat because they are  not content and they would rather have their cake and eat it too. It's not that they do not love the woman that they are with, it's just that they would also love to taste what they haven't had and that's just the sad truth. 

Now I personally have never heard of man who doesn't cheat and honestly I don't know if  I believe that there is such a man but I do believe that time will tell and if i ever meet a man that doesn't cheat, you guys will be the first to know !


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Wednesday, August 14, 2019

A good man will be honest no matter how painful the truth is

Hear this and learn this ! A good man will be honest no matter how painful the truth is ! Don't ever think that a man loves you too much because he's lying to "protect you". A man who really loves you will sit you down, look you in the eyes and tell you truth because he loves you and respects you enough to be the one to tell you the facts before you hear it from somebody else. 

Let's be real a lot of these men only end up telling you the truth after you find out about it and then they claim that they kept it from you to "protect" you. Uh huh, protect me my ass ! What kind of protection is it if i've already been embarrassed? How about you protect me by not doing it in the first place?

Ladies, settle for a man who is going to be honest with you or even better, settle for a man who is not going to do anything that is going to bring you pain !

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Sunday, August 11, 2019

Make her feel like the competition, not the one competing

Yessiiiirrrrrrrrrrr ! Men, it's time to take notes ! If that's your woman, make her feel like she's the damn competition, not the one competing. You've got to make your girl feel like she's your Beyonce and she's the only one that rocks your world. Don't ever compare her with other females or make her feel insecure, that's a weak move. 

Ladies, never ever settle for a man who does not make you feel like you're the best thing that's ever happened to him. Settling for a man who makes you feel like that is a major L, for real. If he's entertaining other females and always paying special attention to other females then he is most definitely not the one. No man who treats his woman like a Queen would ever make other females feel like they are on her level ever.

Settle for the man who makes you feel like the Queen of his castle... Settle for the man who puts you above everybody else... Settle for the man who knows your worth !

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Wednesday, August 7, 2019

I want to be your favourite hello and your hardest goodbye

Ladies, If you're not his favourite hello and his hardest goodbye just forget that situation altogether ! He needs to be excited to see you and sad to watch you leave, that's what you should be settling for, nothing less ! To be honest it should work both ways, because you definitely can't be feeling a guy that much if you're not that excited to see him and you're not that sad when he leaves you. 

You know that feeling when you're soo excited to see a good morning text from a certain somebody, that's how you know for sure that you're into that person.  Now if you're not receiving these good morning texts, that's a little bit of a red flag. The only way you  could possibly know if another person is thinking about you when they wake up is if they take a second out of their time and message you a good morning text. 

I know that some may claim that they're too "busy" or that they've lost track of time but if a person is too busy to take two seconds out of their morning to just say good morning then it's a sign that they just may not be into you. 

Read between the lines and look out for those signs !


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