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If Anyone Can Have It, I Don't Want It

This is exactly how it should be. If the person you want to be with is accessible to just about everybody or anybody then that should not be a person you should want to be with. Honestly, who wants to be with someone who nearly everybody has been with or claimed ? That ish isn't even attractive. Imagine being in public with the person and continuously bumping into everyone they've been with because they're just that easy. I understand that it's not possible to be with someone who nobody else has been with, especially not in this world that we live in but trust me when I say the less the amount the better.  I once dated a guy who's track record wasn't that cute and let me just say that ish was soo embarrassing. Almost everywhere I went, there was someone that had either known him, known of him, had been with him or had known someone that had. Don't forget that, a cheap shop has a lot of customers whilst an expensive shop has less customers but more value

Why do we focus on the bad guys and ignore the good ones?

This is common problem alot of us females have. We ignore the good fish in the sea and we focus on the bad fish. We focus on the guy who has no idea how to treat us right and has no plans on settling down. Why do we do this ladies? Why do we ignore the guys that are good for us and go for the ones that are not.  I know of a few females who are only actually attracted to guys with the "bad boy" kind of look, in fact i was one of those females when i was a little younger. I only ever looked at the guys who looked like they were destined to be on road for the rest of their lives. There was just something about that those bad boys that had my temperature so high and my heart beating at a pace i couldn't control.. But boy have i learnt my lesson, Ive learnt to stay far fat away from those kinda of boys. But let's be honest, not every guy that comes off as a good guy is actually a good guy, there are alot of pretenders out there for real, so you just got to be a little