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If you hesitate between me & another person, do not choose me

Facts On Facts On Facts ! This is the mentality we need to have this year 2019. New year, better mentality.  If the person you're with hesitates between you and somebody else, you need to allow them to choose the other person because if they are hesitating then they are not a hundred percent sure about you. Hesitation is vital in knowing whether someone really loves you and trust me when i say if they have to hesitate then they do not love you the way you think they do. 

I myself have been in a situation where the person i was with hesitated between choosing me and another person and at that point i really should have realised that person was not for me but i didn't and i was excited that i was chosen in the end but the situation did not even last because in the end i saw that they did not value me like they should have done. 

Once you allow the person to hesitate, you lose value of yourself and self worth. You cannot say you value yourself if you settle for a person who has to hesitate before choosing you and that's just a fact.  

So let's make better choices and let's value ourselves very highly. Let's not choose a person who hesitates between us and somebody else. 


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