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It is a hundred percent better to have nobody than to have somebody who doesn't want to be there


No word of a lie has been told here ! Loud it for the people in the back please ! I know that there are a lot of people out here settling with people who do not actually want to be in the relationship. The signs are there, their other half is showing that they would rather be somewhere else but they keep on forcing the situation because they just cannot let go. 

I'm here to tell you to LET GO ! If you can see that your partner is not really putting in the work to be in the relationship, Let them go !  It is not by force, Do not force it ! 

There are soo many signs and we need to stop ignoring them. If your other half is not putting in the effort to see you or at last talk to you, then they do not want to be there ! If your other half is spending more time with other people than with you, they do not want to be there ! If you are  questioning whether they want to be there, they do not want to be there !  If you are a side chick and your other half doesn't want to leave his wife, He does not want to be there ! It's just that simple !

Us humans love to complicate things when it's just soo simple. What is meant for you will be for you ! Trust me, you do not need to force things with anybody. If you are forcing it, then it is not for you !! 





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