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I'm no longer hurt that you lied to me ...



Scream it louder for the people in the back ! I'm sure that this is usually the case in most situations. Okay i'm not saying that people are not hurt from being lied to but I am saying that after they are over the hurt of being lied to they then feel hurt from the fact that they can never trust again ! 

Let's talk about this ! Not all lies are heart breaking but there are some lies that can really make people have trust issues. Some people just do not understand that the lies they tell can have a major effect on a persons trust. 

It took me years to actually get over my trust issues and trust me when I say it was one of my biggest challenges yet ! Imagine putting all your trust into one person then finding out they've been lying to you throughout the whole relationship ! It hurts for real but what was even more painful was that I lost all the trust that I had in me...

I know the truth hurts but trust me when I say that lies hurt even more. People need to understand that honesty really is the best policy. No matter how much it hurts, telling the truth is the only solution that works.



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