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A good relationship should be based on love, respect, commitment and mutual trust between both partners

 


Honestly, if your relationship does not consist of love, respect, commitment and mutual trust then just throw that whole relationship in the bin. Toss it, dump it just get rid of it. You can't be shouting you're in a relationship with your chest if your relationship isn't based on these five things. 

You have to love your partner, respect your partner, be committed to your partner and trust your partner and vice versa. Without these components, your relationship has basically failed and it's not something you start building halfway through the relationship, these components have to be there in the beginning. 

I know of situations where relationships started off with love, respect, commitment and trust and ended with none of these components. It's very possible that you fall out of love, lose respect, reduce your commitment and lose your trust whilst in the relationship, this is natural and sometimes just how life goes. However, it is soo important that once the relationship starts to lose these components that you really evaluate the situation and decide if it's worth working on or if you need to leave.

Remove the mentality that leaving a relationship means you have failed in life. You have not failed, in fact you've won in life because you removed yourself from a situation that could have prevented you from progressing in life. 


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