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If he cheats more than once with the same woman, leave !

 



I mean do I really need to explain this or is it not just self explanatory. In fact it's just common sense, if i'm being honest. A man cheating is one thing but cheating with the same woman more than once is just damn right nasty ! 

If you have caught your man with the same man more than once, sis leave ! There is no need to stay in this situation because it's never going to change unless one of you get wiped out and that's pretty unrealistic. I'm telling you now that if your man can't leave that girl alone then there's something more there than just sex. The truth of the fact is that he has a lot of feelings for that girl and he just can't let her go. This doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it just means he loves you and her too. 

When you find yourself in a situation like this, you have to choose yourself first because that's the only way you're going to find peace. If the other woman is refusing to leave then you may have to be the one to do so and let your man return to you when he's ready and hopefully you've moved on by then.

Many men are simple minded and they cheat for fun but it becomes very complicated when they continue to cheat with the same female because it means they cannot control their feelings for this woman and that's dangerous. But they don't want to lose the woman that they're already with and also do not want to lose the second woman either. Now two women are fighting for one man and it's a damn right mess. 

Remember that no man is worth losing your peace and self worth over! Love yourself always and chose you every time ! 





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